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I need some advice.

I need some advice that maybe I should get from my mother or a best friend or my big sister, but I am asking you all.

Whether you are married or not or in a relationship I need help.

I’ve liked this guy for a really long time. We know each other from last year at school. Now that we live in two different Residence Halls we hardly ever talk or text. I can’t just give up on him. You just don’t do that. It’s an easier said than done situation.

What do I do. How do I tell him how I feel. I hardly ever see him and I think in person would be the best way. Please I am begging you.. literally begging you.

16 Replies to “I need some advice.”

  3. Look at you putting yourself allll out there for the world to see. You go girl. Definitely do it in person. I would just ask to hang out or something. If he wants to then he's still into you too. If he doesn't then you might just have your answer.

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  4. You'll never know how he feels if you don't let him know how you feel. Did you guys used to do a lot things together? Is your schedules the only thing keeping you apart? If that's all that stands between the two of you I would make sure to take that extra step to tell him how you feel! 🙂

    Found you threw the GFC hop!

    Ashley
    Beauty Flawed

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  5. This is a little bit tricky. First, you don't want to seem un-lady-like, but at the same time you have to be confident. Here are some more questions to ask…when you were hanging out how did he act? Is he hanging out with any other ladies? But besides that, I'd probably just ask him to hang out and get some coffee.

    All of that being written, I'm going to share a secret with you. I haven't been on a date in 5 years. I can't believe I just admitted that publicly, but it's true. Probably shouldn't take my advice. 🙂

    Thanks for co-hosting. New follower from the blog hop.

    ~Danette
    All My Love for All My Days
    http://www.danettedillon.com

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  6. I would ask if he wanted to get coffee and lunch to catch up and see how life in his new dorm is going. If there is a connection, you'll know it! Good luck!

    julee @ diylouisville.blogspot.com

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  10. Hi there! Found you through the GFC Hop. You definitely have to talk to him. Just ask him to coffee or lunch like many of the others suggested. I would just be frank and tell him exactly how you feel. Sometimes guys need to know that you like them before they can show their feelings. If he doesn't feel the same, at least you will know. Hope my advice helps!

    http://www.thatsuburbanmomma.com

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  11. Take the first step to contact him- people are always excited to hear from friends! Maybe communicate via Facebook, invite him to hang out with you and or friends, or invite him to your Res Hall's activities or parties! Make the effort and it will be worth it! New follower from the blog hop!

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  13. New follower via the blog hop! I agree with Laura! Start hanging out with him! Find reasons to be around him. Maybe start in a group, get a group of people together and invite him to come wherever ya'll are going. That will open up communication again. And give you a chance to see him around people again. I think there's alot to say about a guys character in a group of people. How does he treat guys and girls?
    Catch up with him. Ask him if he wants to get coffee sometime.
    Just start being friends again, since it's been awhile since you've hung out, and then tell him! Be confident! Good luck!! http://www.themosbysinchina.blogspot.com

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  15. Good morning Natalie! I found you at the GFC Blog Hop ^^ I really liked your blog so I'm now following you : )
    Hope you get a chance to visit mine too and take a look around.

    I would just ask him out, I know it takes a lot of corauge to do it, but later on in your life you're going to realize that when you want something you just have to go out and get it, nothing, no opportunity is ever going to come knocking down your door. What's the worst thing that could happen? Ok, so he could say no… but, he might say yes!

    Have a great day xx
    n o i r e d a m e

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  16. Hi! I just found you on the blog hop!

    I agree with what everyone else seems to be saying. Ask him out to coffee or something super casual like that. If he is excited about the idea, you know he's probably interested! If he totally backs off, I'd keep my feelings to myself if I were you! He's probably not interested. I'm sure he would be though, men love confident women, and you certainly are for just going for it! Good luck!

    -Olivia
    http://daytodaybeautyblog.blogspot.com/

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